Have you ever made a mistake and immediately thought, “I’m so stupid,” “I’m not good enough,” or “I’ll never change”?
In this episode of **PWC Truth Talk**, Steve and Pastor Chachi continue their honest conversation about **negative self-talk** and how it can quietly keep us trapped in shame, fear, and discouragement.
Together, they explore the important difference between **God’s conviction and personal condemnation**:
Conviction says, “Something I did was wrong, and God can help me grow.”
Condemnation says, “I am worthless, hopeless, and beyond help.”
God may correct us, but He does not shame us or tell us that we have no value. His correction invites us into forgiveness, growth, healing, and a closer relationship with Him.
In this conversation, Steve and Chachi discuss:
• How to recognize negative thoughts before they control your reactions
• Why simply “trying harder” often does not create lasting change
• How awareness helps us recognize unhealthy patterns
• The difference between learning from a mistake and condemning yourself
• How other people’s expectations can become false convictions
• Why information alone does not produce transformation
• How to take negative thoughts captive and examine them with God
• Why replacing lies requires more than empty positive thinking
• How Scripture helps us agree with God’s truth
• Why it is never too late for God to continue His work in your life
One of the most important truths from this episode is:
**We cannot challenge a lie until we recognize it.**
Before we can replace negative self-talk, we must slow down and notice what we are saying to ourselves. Where did that thought come from? Is it true? Does it agree with the character and Word of God?